Planning a Romantic Getaway
If there’s one thing you could really use right now, it’s a romantic getaway. Who doesn’t love spending quality time with the one who fills your heart?
Romantic getaways are the perfect way to celebrate the intimate relationship you have as a couple. And planning a romantic getaway can be as easy as choosing a beautiful location, selecting activities that both you and your partner will enjoy, and enjoying this special time you have together.
The best part is that you don’t have to spend a ton of money to have the perfect vacation with your partner. All it really takes is a little bit of creativity and planning, and you can have the vacation that you’ve both been dreaming about. So commit to taking a break from the busyness of life, relaxing, making new memories, and exploring new places together as soon as possible.
Here are the top 10 tips for planning a romantic getaway that you’ll both cherish forever:
1. Consider Your Current Needs
Could you both use a lazy weekend in a nice hotel where you catch up on sleep, binge-watch movies, and order room service? Or could you both use an adventure where you go white water rafting, tour breweries, and eat ethnic cuisine? Taking your current needs into account will help you plan the romantic getaway that you both really need right now.
2. Brainstorm Your Favorite Activities
When you’re planning a romantic getaway, brainstorming your favorite activities will help you decide which locations are a good match for you. For example, if you love playing disc golf together, you can plan your romantic getaway in a location known for its courses.
3. Discuss Your Bucket List Items
Knowing each other’s bucket list items is another great way to start planning the perfect romantic getaway. Just think of how excited your partner will be finally getting to watch baby sea turtles hatch or taking a hot air balloon ride over the mountains.
4. Evaluate Your Time
Once you know how many days you have available for vacation, you want to make sure that you evaluate your time carefully. Spending two of your five days off just for travel may not be the best use of your time, so you may want to find a location closer to home. On the other hand, if you have two weeks off, you may want to take advantage of this time and go even further away.
5. Plan Your Budget
It’s important to plan your vacation budget before you finalize any plans for your romantic getaway. Coming home to money stress kills any romance you experienced while you were gone, so avoid that at all costs. Plan a reasonable budget and stick to it.
6. Schedule Downtime
One of the most important steps to creating romance is spending leisure time together. So instead of scheduling every minute of your trip, be sure to have a lot of downtime too. Cuddle, flirt over a glass of wine, or take a long nature walk holding hands with no destination in mind.
7. Be Present
You can’t share romance with your partner if your eyes are glued to your cell phone or if your mind is on your favorite team’s scores. While planning a romantic getaway, make sure you actually plan to get away from your normal life and be present for your partner.
8. Put in the Effort
Romantic getaways are exciting so make sure you put in the effort to keep your spark alive. Get a haircut, pack outfits that make you feel hot, or wear your partner’s favorite scent. Think about everything you did when you first started dating to attract that other person and have fun putting in that same effort again.
9. Perform Romantic Gestures
Another great thing to keep in mind while planning a romantic getaway is how to perform romantic gestures while you’re there. Consider having your partner’s favorite champagne chilling in the room when you arrive, plan a walk on the beach so you can watch the sunset together, or reserve a table by the fireplace at a romantic restaurant.
10. Enjoy Your Time Together
The whole reason you’re planning a romantic getaway in the first place is so that you can truly enjoy your time together. So stay positive, leave any issues you may be having at home, and remember why you made a commitment to each other, to begin with.
Planning a romantic getaway can be a really fun experience for you both as a couple or it can be a really fun surprise for your partner. Either way, a romantic getaway is a great way to keep the fun and the heat in your relationship. And who doesn’t want that?
In fact, studies have even shown that couples who travel together are more connected and have a deeper level of intimacy with one another.
Romantic Getaway Ideas
Once you spend some time considering the top 10 tips for planning a romantic getaway, it’s time to choose your destination. And sometimes choosing a destination can be so overwhelming with all the choices available that it takes all the fun out of planning a romantic getaway.
But it certainly doesn’t have to be that way. So, avoid analysis paralysis and just pick a place already.
Here are 30 romantic getaway ideas to help get you started:
- Lakeside cottage
- Seaside town
- Lighthouse hotel
- Waterfalls
- Hot springs
- Bed & breakfast
- Wine region
- Mountain lodge
- Camping
- Glamping
- Treehouse resort
- Ski resort
- Golf and spa resort
- Desert festival
- Dude ranch
- State park
- National park
- Wildlife tours
- Big city
- Beer City USA
- Casinos
- Museums
- Boardwalk
- Art district
- Music district
- All-inclusive resort
- Island
- Cruise
- Scenic train vacation
- International trip
Which one jumps out to you?
The options can feel endless when you’re brainstorming romantic getaway ideas. So just remember that what matters most is that you plan a trip that both partners will fully enjoy.
Remember, you’re very different as a couple than anyone else you know. You have a unique relationship, and you both have needs and wants that are personal to you.
So don’t just go somewhere because other people you know say that it’s a great place to visit.
Take the time to consider both of your current needs, the activities you already love doing, the activities you’ve always wanted to try, the time you have available to you, and your budget.
Mix in a positive attitude and some romantic gestures, and you’re sure to have a romantic getaway that the two of you will always remember.
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What does your dream romantic getaway look like? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.
I love your idea of staying positive and enjoying your time together. I agree with you that we don’t have to spend plenty to have a romantic vacation. Anything closer to nature works for us.
Great suggestions:)
I agree. Spending time in nature is a great way to getaway from normal life.
Oh these are all such great ideas for planning a romantic getaway. Thanks so much for sharing!
You’re welcome.
How about a lakeside cottage in an international wine region?? That way I can combine three in one? Haha! I love this post. It’s so meaningful and it creates a really special environment for a romantic trip. Great job!
Great idea! That sounds like the perfect romantic getaway.
I miss little weekend getaways with my boyfriend. I can’t wait for it to be safe again and we can explore new places together! I love your ideas to brainstorm
I hear you! It will feel so great when we can travel freely again. Hopefully soon…
These are great tips. I completely agree that you both need to make the effort. I’d love to go glamping when this pandemic is over.
Yes! Glamping sounds like a lot of fun.
These are very valuable tips. And I love all the ideas you mentioned at the end. During times like these, I guess everyone needs a little vacation, some quality time with a loved-one. My husband and I were planning a weekend getaway, however, we got locked down again. Hopefully we’ll be able to go soon. Thank you for sharing 🙂
I hope you can go soon. I know you both need a getaway more than ever after being locked down.
These are very valuable tips. And I love all the ideas you mentioned at the end. During times like these, I guess everyone needs a little vacation, some quality time with a loved-one. My husband and I were planning a weekend getaway, however, we got locked down again. Hopefully we’ll be able to go soon. Thank you for sharing 🙂
I hope you’re able to go soon too.